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The Yoruba Demon Theory (YDT)

? What does being a Yoruba demon mean? I have asked around, I got different answers, but the common answer I got was "Heartbreakers". How true is that ?, I heard from multiple sources that Yoruba men enjoy hurting women and cheating and breaking hearts and that they are so stingy and selfish in everything they do. It is funny, I know, but it is a subject that really interests me. Okay, fine, it is a terrible form of stereotyping, but how true is that ?. I also heard that Igbo men on the other hand are perfect men, perfect husbands, perfect boyfriends and well, better lovers .           The only glitch in all these perfection is the fact that they tend to deny pregnancies more than the average Yoruba dem..err men. Also Igbo men will prefer stay home mothers, they like to have their food ready when they get home from work, they like to be the providers, this is what some women like, but what of the few women who actually want to work and not stay home cooking all day? Well

BEING THE OTHER WOMAN...diary of a mistress (3)

    And I waited and oh how I longed to hear his voice, to listen to his explanation, of course I was so angry as well, I was going to give him a piece of my mind, but I knew I was also going to forgive him, I was already in love with this man.     I figured work was so stressful and he was under a lot of pressure and he totally forgot to call, or maybe he lost his phone, or he got mugged, I mean it's not uncommon in this country, right?, oh what if he had been killed! And his body was lying in a ditch somewhere, I imagined his last thoughts where about me, too much to expect? Oh well I gave up my ghoulish thoughts and focused on my school work and my friend and mom. Easier said than done.     Uju and I returned back to school on Monday morning, I had a free lecture period- the professor had at the last minute decided that he needed a new haircut, yes hard to believe, I know- but that's how it was and I was honestly really glad for the time, I needed to think, I wasn't re