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    And I waited and oh how I longed to hear his voice, to listen to his explanation, of course I was so angry as well, I was going to give him a piece of my mind, but I knew I was also going to forgive him, I was already in love with this man.     I figured work was so stressful and he was under a lot of pressure and he totally forgot to call, or maybe he lost his phone, or he got mugged, I mean it's not uncommon in this country, right?, oh what if he had been killed! And his body was lying in a ditch somewhere, I imagined his last thoughts where about me, too much to expect? Oh well I gave up my ghoulish thoughts and focused on my school work and my friend and mom. Easier said than done.     Uju and I returned back to school on Monday morning, I had a free lecture period- the professor had at the last minute decided that he needed a new haircut, yes hard to believe, I know- but that's how it was and I was honestly really glad for the time, I needed to think, I wasn't re

BEING THE OTHER WOMAN...diary of a mistress (2) I met Chief Olanrewaju Ademola, about three years ago, I was in the second semester of my third year in the university, I still hadn't met anyone I was interested in, don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with me, I am a really beautiful woman, and I did have some guys interested in me, 'toasters' as we called them, I just didn't find any of them appealing to my standards, I saw myself as really important, my wonderful father (of blessed memory) always told me "You are perfect, you are very beautiful and special, you are unique and the world might not understand you but do not let them change you or break you, you are stubborn but you have lots of love to give, do not change for anyone".     I remember the day he said that to me, I had just been in an argument with one of my teachers in Bright Stars nursery and primary school, she had written down some acronyms on the board and we were supposed to find

Okay guys, the other day I told you about my shopping experience with my girlfriends, well the Main event came after that, the main event came about 4 months after that, I had been trying to shed some weight and I felt lighter, so when my significant other (yes my partner) proposed a shopping spree, I said yes without a thought, the thought I should have been thinking was: "I HAVE NOT LOST ANY WEIGHT!". But alas, I wasn't thinking.     It was a Saturday morning, the previous night we went out for drinks, we had catfish pepper soup, and it was really good too, when we got home, we had wine, so on that Saturday morning, I was a little bit bloated but I wasn't going to turn down shopping because I felt sick. Off we went to this little boutique in town, it was new and the owner, Miss Mabel, swore that she had stuff that would be my perfect size, p.s they always do , I made it a point to ask, not because of what happened four months ago (I had all but forgotten about that