Is There An Acceptable Way To Reject A Guy?- From A Woman's Eyes

    Let's talk frankly, is there an acceptable way to tell a guy no?
    I am honestly confused, a guy be blowing up your phones, stalking you, saying all the sweetest things just to get you, and when you don't fall for it and say a  simple No, they flip and rain abuses on you, "ugly girl, fat girl, thin girl, short girl" like she wasn't all that when you were following her like a lost puppy?.
    Ladies have been trying to figure out a way to tell guys they are not interested without them getting all mad,figuring out ways to salvage men's misguided, if I may add, egos, let me look at some of the most popular ways that ladies have come up with:

IM SORRY, I JUST GOT OUT A RELATIONSHIP
    This one is not all that common because the first instinct a person has after a broken relationship is to jump back on the proverbial horse( this is wrong by the way). Hence, when a girl who is serious with her life just gets out of a relationship and not in a hurry to get into another one, she kindly explains to the dude, he should understand, right? Wrong!. He doesn't, this is an affront to his personality!. How can a female refuse him?!. He is baffled and so he does the next best thing that comes to mind, "so you want to wait till you're ready, abi, ok, wait well, or you think say na so you fine reach?", now we must understand that he probably doesn't mean a word of that but he has to redeem himself from all those times he spent chasing after you like a fool. So she doesn't take it to heart, just smiles and says, good luck, now that gets him even more mad, at least if she had gotten angry and said insultive words to him too, they would be on the same level, her ignoring him is worse than rejecting him. Can you believe that!?.

PLEASE GET OUT OF MY WAY, AM I ON YOUR LEVEL!?
   This, I beg you, you should never use. No. It never ends well, you might get beaten or worse killed, I know I'm being paranoid but bear with me.
Let's imagine a guy, he has been eyeing you for a while, every time he tried to talk to you, the song by Tal Bachann, She's So High, keeps playing in his head, he knows you're way out of his league, but he really likes you, his friends warn him not to even think about it, but he doesn't care, he has to have you!. So on that faithful day he has been drinking, it is safe to say he would fail any sobriety test, he sees an opportunity to talk to you, but you're with two of your girls, feeling all fly, he comes stauntering up to you, reeking of booze, you see he didn't think he should be doing this but his friends have dared him.
    So walk up to you, his head held high, and says what he has to say, and you flip like that! Girl! You're so in deep doodle! His friends behind him watching and jeering, your friends in front of him mocking and laughing, well he's gonna let you have it, and you trying to sass him might land you on your back, blacked out, just saying.

AWW, THANKS, BUT I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP
    Well girl, that's asking for trouble, he has just asked you out to lunch and you played the boyfriend card, he's gonna be mad. "I haven't brought out a ring to propose, madame, all this ugly girls self, when you approach them to give them hope, they will be feeling important, with your k-legs". Well girl you set yourself up for that one, you should have just said simply, I'm not interested!.

I'M NOT INTERESTED
    If you took my advice and used this, well you're not safe either, because he's not buying that, how can you not be interested, what do you know is interest, can't you see his Camry, can't you see his height, or you need glasses to view his handsome face well, no o, he's not taking it.
    (You see men do not simply believe a woman honestly isn't interested in them, they believe that if they pestered her enough, they will get her, or if they spent all their money, she would keel over and die in their arms, well to all the dudes reading this, you can not be more wrong, when a woman says she's not interested, Darling, she really isn't, and spending all that money won't make her, although every girl loves a good shopping spree! She'll just agree to get you off her back while she enjoys your spending, or she'll lead you on and enjoy your spending, either way, you ain't getting that girl). Anyway, as expected, the guys shows his true colors and tells you why you should be grateful he asked you out in the first place
    I don't know if this applies to every guy but it is quite common, they just aren't taking no for an answer. And this is just a few of many o, boys have no chill!.

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